I will not talk about the classic rules of being educated, who already know everything (I hope). I want to tell you about other "NOT", which will help "to strike the man down" already on the first date.
Do not interrupt.
At least, it's not decent. Secondly, so you show the man that you are not interested in what he says. It is better to listen to the interlocutor with a careful look, sometimes inserting a few words, prompting the man the best expressions of his thoughts. Show him that you can listen! Men appreciate this very much.
Do not tell everything about yourself.
Do not put on the first date all the information about yourself: where do you live, whom do you work for, when you went to the first month, and how many men you had. In a woman there must be a mystery. This will intrigue a man and he will want to know you better. If you put all the cards at once in front of him, further communication for him will not be interesting.
No foolish jokes!
A sense of humor is wonderful. But not always and over everything you can joke. Do not joke over a man. It's not decent and can hurt him. If you do not get a very humorous humor, prepare in advance. Think up some funny stories that you tell the other person. And it's not necessary that they happen to you or today. And, of course, no vulgar jokes and humor "below the belt". Smile more. Remember that men like cute and affable girls.
Do not make an interrogation.
Your meticulous questions about where he works, how much he receives, where he lives, how long his past relationships ended and why, when he lost his virginity, they can scare a man away. The answers to all these questions you will learn a little later. Be a patient and intelligent woman.
Do not drink too much.
Alcohol is not the best companion of the first date. Especially, if you quickly get drunk and start to behave indecently. To drink a glass of wine or a cocktail to relieve tension and nervousness of course you can. The main thing is not to overdo it. Men like decent women who control themselves.
Do not look available.
Of course, it all depends on what plans you have for this night. If you want to meet this man again, do not put on frank things, brightly show off and look like "a girl of easy virtue".
Do not drop your eyes.
If you keep looking at all the time, running around with your eyes, dropping them down, a man might think that it's in him, that a sheet of parsley is stuck in his teeth, or there are traces of coffee on his lips, or his fly is unbuttoned. Checking your appearance in the toilet, your interlocutor will come to the conclusion that you are insecure and very complex. You're not like that! So do not behave like this!
Do not yawn.
A bored look and a grin on your lips is unlikely to please your interlocutor. Your date can end when you start. Do not go too far with the game "Impatient".
Do not flirt with others.
Imagine the situation that you are sitting in a cozy cafe, and then an old friend or friend of your interlocutor sits down next table. Do not start flirting with another in front of your chosen one. It is not known what he will think of you.
Do not be like everyone else.
You understand that a man spends with you is not the first date in his life. He, for sure, has already made his "classification" of the girls, and believes that he is able to foresee your words and deeds. Surprise him for its eccentricity and originality. Arrange for him "the theater of one actor." This is to the question of the "mystery woman". It is these women are invited to a new date.
By observing these simple rules, you will not spoil the first date and will interest the man.