The secret dream of a mature woman .
According to a sociological survey, most of the women aged thirty-five would like to have a relationship with a young boy. So, out of three thousand interviewed ladies of middle age, fifty-three percent do not conceal their predilections for young people less than ten or even twenty years old. But thirty-seven percent of women found it difficult to give an answer to this question, and the remaining percentage of respondents admitted that they lead young guys in their dreams, but in real life they would never agree to such a relationship. According to psychologists, the reason for such predilections of women to men younger than themselves can safely be called the desire of mature ladies, to live their "second youth" next to a young guy.
Among other things, such a relationship with a man younger than herself helps a woman to assert herself as a person, find harmony with herself and prove to herself that she is attractive and interesting for such a man. Unfortunately, psychologists with this question were able to interview few women in this age group, in fact, such ladies who are addicted to young guys and want to see alongside themselves such a boyfriend is much more.
Women's addiction to young people and the rumor .
On unequal relations among the people is a rumor for a long time. After all, such relationships have always "rushed" into the human eye. Many of them condemn, and many support. In general, how many people, so many opinions on this matter. By the way, an interesting fact is that unequal relationships, when a man older than a woman's society treat, quite normal, but the relationship where a woman is older - risk becoming a source of controversy and nedomekov. Most often, such relations can be judged not only by friends and colleagues, but also by relatives. It is for this reason, such a pair have to face these problems and constantly not only fight for their own happiness, but also to prove to others their love and the right to it. By the way, such relationships can often be called successful and prosperous, which turn into marriage. That's just not all people around believe in such a finale, highlighting the personal goals and interests of a mature woman and a young man.
The essence of unequal relations .
Very often women pay attention to young men, when they are not interested in the material side of such relations. Such women, as a rule, for a long time already realized themselves in life and took place as a person. These women already have a good high-paying position, their own housing and they do not need anything except love and affection. That's why, to wait for a man younger than herself, financial support, a lady at the age does not want. First of all, in such relationships, it can involve sexual life with a young partner. This is primarily due to the fact that women do not have enough attention from men of the same age, and she wants something special and sensual: the nights are filled with passion, which will help her to feel not only desirable, but again young. And after all, men after forty are difficult to give a woman a real passion, against the fact that she can give a young guy. The curious fact is that just after thirty years, women experience an apogee of sexual activity, while in men, quite the contrary, it decreases.
In addition to the above, such relationships are endowed with special care and protection. For young men, such a woman can easily replace a mother, become an adviser and mentor in life, help him realize himself and find his niche in society. This kind of guardianship by the ladies is always appreciated and taken for granted by the ladies.
How to maintain such a relationship in harmony and understanding ?
First of all, a woman who has a weakness for men younger than herself should be able to watch herself to always look next to such a gentleman worthy and even younger than her years. She also needs all this so that she can compete with young girls. But such a concept as female jealousy, unfortunately, is an integral part of such relations. That's why a woman should have all the trump cards in order to keep the young man next to her.
Among other things, a young boyfriend should not be put on the level of a "child". This is due to the fact that all men (even at the age of twenty) are inclined to leadership in absolutely everything. That's why a man needs to encourage this predilection and not to hint at a lack of life experience.
One should never associate such relations with finances. If the lady is wealthy and constantly reminds this young man, as if buying his attention, wanting instead of him only good sex and passion, a young man can simply seem to be using it. That's why material well-being here should not play any role, but mutual understanding and openness is the main destiny of unequal relations between a woman older than a man.
In such relationships, do not relax even after marriage. Do not press on the guy, blame and be jealous of hysterical dicks, if he chose a woman older than himself, she, in turn, must be proud of it!
And as a conclusion to conclude our topic, I want to say that the desire of women to men younger than themselves is quite normal and such relationships make many people happy. That's why, you should never be afraid of people's rumors and gossip that will certainly accompany such a relationship. Therefore, if you both have the desire to be together, be sure to put it in the basis of such relationships. After all, the age difference has never played a significant role, the main thing here is feelings!