It seems to be all right: you are married, already have a child, but life seems to you not happy enough. What's the matter? And the problem is that by marrying, we expect that the husband will make us happy. And without getting what we want, we start to make claims. And everything is very simple - take your happiness and the happiness of the family in your hands. Look at the husband's not all so bad otherwise you would not marry him.
And another important path to the happiness of women. A woman should work, because the need to be in sight, to be in society, the opportunity to show oneself and communicate is a step towards happiness. A woman should develop as a person. And then, it will not feel empty in modern society.
What do we need for happiness? We should be beautiful, have a slender figure and beautiful legs. A woman is an emotional being and her whole life is a continuous emotion. It is known if you want something very much, then everything will turn out. Therefore, a woman, with emotional motivation, can turn herself from a ugly duckling into a royal swan. And if she needs it, she will achieve all the goals set in love and even in business. After all, a man looks at us with his own eyes, and sees what we want to show him. Every woman, if you need to go to the evening in a new dress, will lose weight in three days without diets and tablets. Ugly women do not exist. There are those who believe in themselves and who do not believe in their strength. No wonder they say that women's happiness is harmony with themselves.
We and our lives are controlled by our subconscious and those images that exist inside of us. Important is that it is inherent from childhood. We copy unconsciously the life of our parents and therefore if the image of happiness is laid down in childhood, then there are almost no problems. Since later we live according to the program then put in place. We must ask ourselves more often - are you happy, what happiness means to you, what I want, what kind of relationship with a man, what you want to be. Most importantly, you need to understand yourself and inside to create an image of happiness, rather than concentrate on the negative of life.
Happiness just does not come. We must work on happiness. Thoughts should be light, and images should be positive. Thinking about negative events, we thus drive ourselves away from luck and do not feel the happiness and joy of life. So - more positive emotions and optimism, and luck will come.
Of course, if the happiness program was not laid down in the childhood, since your mother is unhappy in the marriage, then the negative program will have to be broken, and make considerable efforts. If you simply dream about good things without understanding the causes of your current problems, you are unlikely to succeed in changing the program within you. Many women notice that they start treating their husbands as if their mother was treating their father. Therefore, try to look at the husband with other eyes, and you will see that not everything is so bad. Change your attitude towards him, and you will be all right.
What is a simple woman's happiness? Saying this, do not think about what was said. This is a broad definition and each has its own. Happiness is love, success, prosperity, family or simply having a husband. Women are a fickle people, and often can not decide, with their desires and feelings. Today you are happy, but not tomorrow. And if you understand, then not much we need for happiness.
First, love . And we should not just allow ourselves to love, but also to love ourselves. There is nothing more beautiful than mutual love. Then life will become bright and intense. But love must be real, and it must be sought, stored and cherished. And you have to give in love, then you will get happiness in return.
Vo-the second the family is necessary and it is obligatory with the husband and children. Feeling of happiness when the whole family together, when peace and love reigns and children's laughter sounds. The family hearth is that warmth that heals us all his life. The family is the harmony of our life and the happiness given to us. Women's happiness without motherhood is impossible, so is embedded in us by nature itself. Everyone feels that she, first of all, the mother and already, therefore, when choosing a partner in life, we look at his certain qualities. On those that will help to grow healthy and intelligent children. Real women's happiness in children.
Third, well-being is a component of women's happiness. Well-being, comfort in the house, warmth and peace. This is when there is an opportunity to live, not to survive. When we are calm for our children and are confident in our strong master. What a blessing not to call the masters, but everything works in the house. Well-being is as they say - to be behind the husband as behind a stone wall. A woman wants to live with dignity, without fear to look to the future of her family. Here they are, thoughts that create women's happiness ...