As they say, a good deed will not be called a marriage! And to ensure that your marriage does not fall into this category, sometimes you can listen to advice from glossy magazines. Only not all, but only sensible. For example, those who say that the most important "killers" of sexual relations in family life are: the presence of cellulite, folds on the abdomen and sides, unshaven legs and bikini zone, on the one hand, the smell of onions, beer belly and
In vain you do not attach importance glossy magazines, in which very often factors that kill sex in the family are called cellulite, unshaven female feet, creases on the stomach, on the one hand, onion odor from the mouth, beer belly and fat under the muscles, on the other . If you do not try to keep the sex appeal for the other half, you put yourself at a huge risk - to stay at the broken trough. If there is no sex, the marriage looks something like this. Spouses sleep on different beds, see a day a couple of hours, which are held in different rooms. On vacation travel separately from each other, everyone has their own interests and deeds. It's not a family, it's a communal apartment. And children, apartment and common accounts are just a mask, which creates the appearance of a family for others.
In order to save sex in marriage, it is important to listen to some tips. For example:
- We need to monitor our health, both internal and external. Be engaged in fitness, hold muscles in a tonus, men like the tightened body. Regularly visit the beauty salon, well-groomed hands, with a beautiful manicure and beautiful hair very like the male sex. Try to normalize the pressure, because forever aching with a headache wife - is not the object of her husband's lusts. Do exercises in the morning. It invigorates and gives energy for the whole day. Walk more. Forget about the existence of the elevator. After all, everyone knows that the movement is life. Buy a subscription to the fitness room or swimming pool. Remember that laziness is your enemy.
- Try to send children to the grandmother for the weekend to be alone with her husband. Devote these two days to each other, go to the cinema, cafe, skating rink. Most importantly, tune into the denouement of the evening in bed.
- In the bedroom, do whatever your heart desires. Do not forget that you can diversify sex using toys from the sex shop or role-playing games. Nothing excites a man like stockings. Get yourself a couple and surprise your husband, if you still train shoes with a stud - you do not have the price.
- You can not blame the partner, for example, in that last month you had sex less than once in the past, or that the erection process is slowly going on. This can offend a loved one and discourage his desire for intimacy for another month.
- Learn to talk about what you like, where you like and how you like. And do not forget to remember what you do not like. After all, this way you will stop the chaotic movements of your partner, and he will be able to give you more pleasure.
- Organize a romantic evening. To do this, you need to make a plan for your actions so that everything goes smoothly and without embarrassment. To look like it all goes without saying. After all, if you fuss, you can destroy the whole romantic atmosphere. And candlelight dinner will pass into the banal performance of marital duties.
It will be great if this evening coincides with some significant event for you. For example, the date of the first date or the day you were offered a hand and heart.
Make a menu in advance and buy products. Prepare a meat dish, make a fruit slicer. Put a chilled bottle of wine or champagne on the table. Of course, we need candles - an integral attribute of romance. Do not forget about the beautiful tablecloth, flowers, aromatic sticks.
Make a selection of your favorite music. Each pair has a "own" song, to which the first dance was danced, or for the first time they kissed. It will be great if among your other songs suddenly yours will sound. Music should play quietly, at the background level, in order to only emphasize the romantic mood, and not cross it out. Light is also desirable to muffle, giving the atmosphere some mystery and mystery.
In turn, put on yourself all the best. You should look sexy and erotic. Choose the things that this will emphasize. Beautiful dress, be sure, high-heeled shoes, lacy underwear with stockings and garter. Thanks to essential oils, laundry can give a pleasant aroma. To do this, it is necessary to drop five drops of essential oil onto a small piece of cloth and put it in a box with linen.
That's all. Now you are in full readiness for a romantic evening. Once again, think through all your actions, and do not worry. You need to relax in order to receive and give pleasure. And then, act according to the planned actions.
In fact - the family, this is a new round in the relationship. It is rumored that the feelings experienced by people who are married can no longer be called love. Although this is fundamentally wrong. Simply, their love takes on other features - it is more friendly, calm and balanced. However, this does not mean that you can put a cross on sex. And if you have at least once in your life the question arose: "Where does sex go in family life and how to save it?" - it means that not everything in your marriage is as good as we would like. Sex does not go away, it should always find a response in your hearts, you should always awaken a tedious tickling feeling in the lower abdomen, you must fill with passion even the most gray and hopeless everyday life. And only then your marriage will grow stronger every day more and more!