Many generations ago, the question of who the head of the family, did not even rise and never asked, since then, in the distant past, everything was clear and clear. The head of the family is, of course, her husband! The husband deals with the prosperity of the family, his word in the house is the law. The woman was assigned such duties as childcare, housekeeping. And also in everything to agree and obey your husband, respect him and take everything he says. If, in addition to everything, the man has also merits of character, such as nobility, justice and kindness, then such a husband was worth his weight in gold. And his wife revered him and admired him. So it was many centuries ago, but today everything has changed.
View of religion
In many ancient chronicles, one can meet the confirmation that the head of the family is a man without a word. A woman in turn takes a secondary position in the house.
Confirmations that the wife should honor and obey her husband, can also be found in the Bible, where it is clearly stated: "not to rule over a married man."
Also confirms that the husband should be dominated and the Koran. It is described that Allah himself identified the place of the woman in the house, and distributed so that one subjugates the other. And also, there it is said that it is not necessary to be submissive, and if there is, then they must be pacified and "struck." On a strict relationship to the women in the Muslim culture is known to all. After all, there are even such cases, when pregnant women were showered with stones for disobedience.
Also, in such great editions as "Kama Sutra" also have their own views on the behavior of women in relation to her husband. And to say there that a woman should only take up one question, which is how to satisfy her husband at night.
The head of the family in our day
In the west, the question of who is the head of the house is not even negotiable. There are rare specimens, like in any culture, living with old concepts. And in general, very few people think that before the husband it is necessary to lower the head and look at the floor, while doing the vision of the economy and servicing the husband in all respects.
It should be noted that Western women, improve themselves regularly and seek to build a career. Due to this, some ladies do not care about marriage at all. And some, unwilling to obey anyone, create so-called weekend marriages. Brevkvyhodnogo day means meeting on the weekend, discussing certain tasks, solving any issues. On the one hand, it should be noted that this selection is a very sensible approach to building a family. Such marriages do not know such a thing as life, which often ruins families. They are more free, such relations in the family are not very similar to that to which we are all accustomed. Here everything is somewhat peculiar and ambiguous.
However, in everything there are always pros and cons. In this case, it is possible to understand just how effective a marriage of this form is by a system of a certain time or with the advent of the next generation. Only then it will be possible to draw a conclusion in the correctness of the approach of creating a family.
At the moment, many men living in the west, the marriage companies are looking for a woman to perform a marriage ceremony, which is interested in creating a family, and not in any way overcome the thoughts associated with feminism and so on. And basically such requests fall precisely on the Slavic marriage agencies.
How do they look at the question of the head of the family Slavic women
After a survey among residents in Russia, it turned out that most of the female population is recognized or ready to recognize the man as the head of the family, in the event that the main profit in the house brings the name. That is, the income of the husband should be several levels higher than the wealth of the spouses. Only in this case, he will be accepted to the position of the head of the house.
But interesting is the fact that according to the results of the poll, even less than one percent of participants said that the head of a man can only be recognized in bed. But in general, this can not be a question. Agreeing that historically the man was recognized as the head of the family, at the moment, in the modern world everything was mixed up and changed a long time ago. And a woman copes with a stack of clothes neither worse nor worse, but even better. Also, it was possible to attract a millionaire to poll respondents who literally buy themselves husbands. And it is difficult, of course, to believe that such a "purchase" will allow them to manage themselves. Although, this is possible, but only if such a woman, completely independent, is nostalgic for times when a man held everything in his hands.
And also, it should be noted that there are women among our compatriots who do not put the notion of who should be at the head of the family as a matter. On the contrary, they believe that the family should be strong, and it will only happen if there is a presence of equal rights.