In the family, perhaps, after a long time, the everyday and philistine attitude begins. Spouses begin to relate to each other, as a manager to the employer, as a psychologist and patient, etc. There is just some kind of misunderstanding, half-heartedness, an invisible barrier is formed. Although the causes of divorce are different for everyone, many people simply want to achieve great success, become an independent person, attend a variety of trainings, but this is all only for singles. So the married couple should just delete such goals from their lives, since the family implies reciprocal actions. It is also necessary to discard all stereotypes that simply hinder and lead to wrong actions. The reasons for the discontinuity of the relationship can be several, we will consider some of them.
Family budget or income . It is one of the main causes of divorce. Statistics show that if the wage of spouses is above the average, the risk of the cause of divorce is reduced by 30%. When there is a child in the family, and the income of such a family is materially high, the risk of divorce is reduced by 24%. Therefore, the reason for such late marriages relating to women (after 30 years) becomes clear, they simply once again insure themselves against the appearance of an unwanted cause in the family. But the stronger sex has its own fears about the rupture of relations, after a failed relationship, they lose all desire to have a wife. Such men in most cases simply remain lifelong bachelors.
Different views about religion . People with different religious views rarely converge at all, but if this does happen, then there is a high probability of divorce in such families. An ideal husband can be exactly the person who has the same religion, national culture, social status as his wife. Statistics give such data that people who are equal in nationality and education, as well as in financial status, are very rarely divorced. Most religions do not have a good attitude toward divorce cases, so they give a reason for preserving family relations and avoiding divorce. People with different nationalities who decided to create a family by calculation are more likely to retain it than those who marry for love. According to statistics, families who have been living together for five years, the probability of divorce is 10%, and families for love - 50%.
Inability to control . Many men, and women in general, too, cease to control the world around them, cease to be masters of their lives, any interests and meetings with friends. Girls, afraid of becoming old maidens, rush into sometimes rash marriages, while at the same time men - in turn because of the prevailing stereotypes and the debt formed under the influence of public opinion. In this case, in order to avoid the cause of divorce, a woman needs to take everything in her hands, namely, to show tolerance, emotional stability, sociability, she must have a desire to establish some kind of trusting relationship.
Use of service words . In the opinion of a well-known psychologist, it follows that one can easily determine the extent of marriage. When using official words, the length of family life is shortened. Wrong speech can be one of the reasons for divorce of married couples. These words can include alliances, and particles, and prepositions, and articles. Some studies have clearly indicated the relationship between the frequent use of official words and divorce. Couples who use such words came to the conclusion that the relationship was broken within three months. This experience is associated with clarifying linguistic dependence.
Frequent gestures. One psychologist and a mathematician has deduced a certain formula by which one can determine the longevity of a family union. A model was created that deals with disputes within the pair, which gives predictive accuracy of almost 95%. Long and happy couples could be called those who during the quarrel could joke and laugh. And couples who acted differently, namely strongly irritated at any statement, while aggressively gesticulating and used sarcasm, were doomed to divorce.
The reason is in the genes . There is an opinion that immoral and disliked habits in people can be related to their appearance, and origin from the gene of offspring. According to many opinions of scientists who conduct experiments on monkeys (probable descendants of man), habits that are unacceptable by society come from these ancient descendants. According to such experiments it was revealed that only the male survived, who was not afraid to take risks. The strength and talent he had with the passage of time under the influence of the process of hunting. Although some traits of character and behavior are simply passed on to us by inheritance. But what if such traits interfere with a person's normal life and become one of the causes of divorce? Then it will be better to try to get rid of or at least reduce their strength in order to preserve the right relationship. Not quite right, such traits can manifest themselves in both women and men. You just need to find a way out, and most importantly, the forces to eliminate them.
The betrayal of one of the spouses . Men tend to believe that physical treason can not be the main reason for divorce. They simply perceive it as a whim, a small trifle, and do not see anything wrong with treason. Whereas this does not concern their halves at all, and this is the opinion of all the same men. A woman who has decided on such a step as treason, morally aware of how much she is desired. That is, without any feelings she is unlikely to decide on a love affair on the side. And women, and almost all, can not live on two fronts.
Naturally, the reasons for divorce in the family can be a lot, and not necessarily they will be from the above, because each family is individual. The main thing is to understand it in time and to exclude it.