We all know, and most women do not hearsay that the break of any relationship can not do without feelings and emotions. Of course, there are times when the novel that came to its finale was very unsuccessful, in which case you can experience incomparable relief. But what to do in a situation where you are not what you thought you did not, and did not even suspect of parting with a man who himself showed initiative and "gave back". Here you are sure to think about how to take revenge on the former lover, once and for all, having studied it and at the same time forcing "to bite your elbows"? Well, if you are overcome by a desire for revenge, then this article is for you!
Rationally approach the plan of revenge
So, you decided to take revenge on your ex-chevalier: where should we start? The answer is simple: before you take revenge on a former lover, you need to understand for yourself whether you really want it. Determine whether this man really "sucked" you so much or you want to take revenge on your ex-boyfriend because you are currently being guided by emotions? To do this, you must certainly reassure yourself and very carefully consider the situation that has developed, to a huge regret, not on your own. Try to imagine that you have already avenged your ex-lover. Presented? Excellent! And now ask yourself, did this feeling bring you any joy and satisfaction? If you are tormented by doubts as to whether you are wise to act, you'd better put off your insidious revenge plan for later: it is quite possible that after a while you will not have something to get revenge for, but you will not have any desire to waste your precious time thinking about this person .
By the way, it is very important in this situation to carry out a self-examination of their degree of guilt in what happened. If he used you, hiding his civil status, then, of course, you can understand. And if you, for example, have started your novel purposefully with a married man or are in a family bond, initially try to understand yourself and the actions that you yourself have committed.
Plan for revenge
Want to avenge your lover that you are thrown - be sure to plan (preferably step by step) all your subsequent actions. Be sure to calculate all possible outcomes of your "revenge". The option you choose, in no case should expose anyone to risk, especially if it concerns little children (if such are the case for a man). For example, if you decide to tell your spouse (new passie) your former lover about his adventures or open her eyes to his essence, in this case, first of all, this woman will suffer, and not the "lover-hero" himself.
"My revenge is strong!"
The best way to get revenge on a former lover is to play on his weaknesses. By the way, who, how not you should know them well! For example, he is a very economical person in life - why do not you provoke him to serious embezzlement? Of course, we do not recommend blackmail and serious damage to property, but we strongly recommend that you flaunt your cunning and resourcefulness. True and cunning planning will help to make an empty purse of the former much more effective.
And how do you like the version of the damaged reputation of the ex-chevalier? Here a good role, for example, photographs of intimate content sent to his colleagues, a questionnaire made on his name on a dating site, fake calls from a venereological dispensary, etc. will play. The main thing - to show your imagination, which will throw a lot of options.
And the last thing, try to make your former friend regret that he lost you. Change your style, update your wardrobe, take beautiful photos and upload them to the Internet. Get a new gentleman, new hobbies and go on vacation. During an accidental meeting with you, your ex-lover will certainly regret that you are not together. Now you can enjoy a new life!