Many certainly heard such a notion as duality, but far from everyone knows the meaning of this word. So, what is duality, and how is it manifested in the relationship of a man and a woman?
Duality is the perfect combination of two components. The whole point is that these two components of the same whole are the opposite. Black and white, hot and cold, good and evil, love is hatred. All that comes to mind, as well as any antonym - this is the reality. However, we are interested in duality in the relationship, so consider this issue in more detail on a specific example.
He : quick-tempered, sometimes stiff, brazen, not afraid of difficulties, ready to step over the corpses (not to take literally) for the sake of his goals, a guy who does not crawl into his pocket, can hit and feels in a large team, like a fish in the water, virtuously communicating with different people. He will not stand on ceremony and will simply send a man who does not like to hell, without trying to hypocrite. He does not understand the feelings and love at all, he does not know how to build a romance, but one sense is perfectly developed - the sense of ownership. A typical aggressor.
She : a romantic girl, who loves to read books, to sit in a comfortable armchair, drawing pretty pictures, unsociable, sometimes withdrawn. She does not like compulsory communication with strangers, quickly gets tired and from relatives; loves solitude and can not tolerate conflicts, because often can not stand up for himself. Dreamy, naive and impressionable, a girl can show her character only to her "own" people. The resignation of conflicts is ready to give in to those who do not like it at all. A typical seamstress.
They : It would seem that there is a common between these two. Strange as it may seem, but such people, completely different at first glance, are ideally suited to each other.
a) The sincere stupidity of the guy, the inability to express tender feelings and lack of romanticism is compensated by the girl's skills of building love relationships.
b) The non-talkative and closed nature of the girl is made up for by her second half: everyone understands how embarrassing the code is, both people are silent, and if the girl does not know what to say, the words will always be found in the guy.
c) What will the two weak men do in the dark gateway when the Gopnik attack? They will be beaten, they will take away all things and will lower them. However, if a man is able to stand up for himself and for his beloved, the Gopnik will not remain wet. Alongside such a defender, a modest, unfamiliar young lady will always feel like a stone wall.
d) Since the girl does not walk around the clubs and does not spend every free minute with her friends, the guy does not have to be nervous and angry again because of jealousy (remember the developed proprietorship, yes?), because in most cases his lover will be at home, with him, with your loved one.
e) Such a guy will always calm the girl's hysteria that has begun, and will not enter into a long and ruthless scandal. Yes, despite his aggressive manners, he will not give in to her in swearing, but will always be able to plug his beloved, while giving both pleasure.
e) ... As well as vice versa - when a scandal begins in public, in which the guy participates, the girl will be able to extinguish the flared furious fire, caress and calm down the female methods of her lover, avoiding unnecessary gossip on the side of the guy.
Examples can be given a lot, relating both to love and friendship, and all of them boil down to the fact that two people, completely opposite, fit each other much better than two people with general psychological qualities. It is clear that here is not considered a love of a musical group or the genre of cinema, duality refers specifically to the subconscious, psychology and feelings. All in fact noticed that in the above example there was not a word about musical or taste preferences?
So, if we sum up all of the above: do not rush to break with a person who, by psychological qualities, is too different from you. The more differences you have in your character, behavior and other human properties, the more perfect you are for each other, just to understand this immediately is not always possible.