Proper development of children

Life changes with the appearance of children in the house. Of course, while they are small, changes are not too noticeable, the way of life is changing more quickly. But as soon as the child begins to creep, everything becomes upside down. Dangerous things are removed higher, and those that can be taken into circulation, the child carefully examines, if it turns out, parses. For children, for some reason, only adult toys are interesting, probably because they have already studied everything their own.
How to borrow a child? First of all, you should pay attention to the character, as each child is a person, which means that each person has his own desires and needs. For calm children, quiet games are more suitable: puzzles, drawing, coloring, reading books, there's how the child chooses. For active, it will be a good option for more moving games. This will give way to emotions. But in any case, do not offer an active game before bed.

Children can be overexcited and sleep badly at night.
Often in families with two or more children, there is jealousy. Avoid this, you can only talk with older children. It is necessary to explain that the younger brother or sister should be given more time. But when he or she grows up, you will all play together. The story should be conducted in a form that is accessible to the child. And most importantly, the child should know that mom and dad still love him. Even if the second child is very small, spend as much time together as possible, do not push the older one. If you need to bathe your sister (brother), do it with your whole family, so that you always have an assistant.

A difficult period in the life of the child comes during the training to the kindergarten. The baby gets scared, but suddenly mom does not pick up after a day's work from the kindergarten. And the first partings with my mother, a lot of stress. Therefore, moral and physical preparation for the kindergarten should be held for a long time, before the first visit to this institution. To begin with, gradually accustom the child to the regime that will be in the garden. This will help in the future to quickly learn. If the child is home and does not recognize grandparents, then you must more carefully prepare the child's psyche for the future separation.

Constantly say that you love and never leave. Talk about the garden as much as possible. That there will be a lot of kids with whom you can play, there will be a lot of interesting activities. And little by little the child will get used to the idea of ​​a kindergarten, because he will know what is happening there. Children who were brought up in pre-school establishments are much easier to adapt to the new team, which means that there will be less problems with the school. Age 13-15 years, this is another stage of growing up. And like the previous one, it is accompanied by problems. But if at a younger age, you had the last word, now, you do not have to put pressure on the child. Since at that age there is such a thing as juvenile maximalism. Everything seems hostile, and you already want to become an adult to make decisions on your own.

Therefore, in any difficult situation, it is better to offer a non-intrusive solution to the problem, or, thanks to your experience, help to "turn" the right decision outward. But to do it so that the teenager thought it was his own decision. And then you will definitely find a common language.
Remember, children are small people who are born with a character and laid down genetically, certain qualities. The task of parents is not to re-educate, but only to adjust the personality. Depending on what characteristics you give priority. To re-educate means to break a child. A broken personality is a terrible sight. To give confidence to your child, do not forget to praise it.