Psychology: married man and mistress

When a woman starts an affair with a married man, she has a lot of questions and thoughts in her head. How did she manage to make a romance with a married man. And although there are many songs and proverbs that one should not touch someone else's, it's just words for her. When other people's relationships are collapsing, a man can still take a "fresh". The theme of our today's conversation is: "Psychology: a married man and a mistress."

Let's give examples of those women who do not consider anything so shameful, start an affair with a stranger. What are they leading?

1. She thinks that her lover's marriage will not last long anyway. She thinks something like this: the fact that he is already married is a mere coincidence, he must belong to me. Therefore, we urgently need to remove him from the "dysfunctional" family. Does he not understand that his wife is not just a couple to him? He treats his wife disdainfully. He laughs at her, why does he need her?
These two people, just can not live long together. But We are another matter. We are created for each other, we understand each other with a half-word, and when we meet, we simply forget about the existence of time. We must make him leave his wife, and we will go hand in hand through life.
2. Razluchnitsa thinks that in relations between her beloved and his wife there is not enough sensuality, tenderness, romanticism and sublimity. Then what feelings can you talk about? If at home her passion only hears reproaches or makes him a slave: "Take out the garbage!", "Vacuuming", "It's time to repair, do not you think so?". But the way to the heart of a man lies not only through his stomach, do not constantly force a man to do something, you need to free him from everyday problems.
But with me he will be happy, and life will not spoil our relationship. And if we spend a little time together, it's okay, I'll stand it, I understand everything, he has a lot of work and work. I will only be comforted by the thought that he is mine. And the less often the meetings, the stronger.

3. Perhaps the mistress sympathizes with her lover, because the wife does not watch him at all, he does not have trousers and a shirt, holes in socks or he has not sewn buttons. She can not understand how a legitimate wife can treat her husband with such indifference when she sees a fat stain on his blouse.
And why does such an interesting man dine with two sandwiches with sausage and cheese, and before going to work, he does not eat anything at all, or drinks some light salad? He eats in a hurry and what he has to do - it's impossible and very harmful for health. So you can bring your husband to a stomach ulcer, or a man will have high blood pressure.
4. Perhaps the "hijacker" does not pay attention to what her object of passion is wearing, and what he eats. She has one task - to intrigue, lure him, and, more often than not, she has such insidious plans, from which the "wife" simply can not get out. She does this with such a twinkle and passion that a man falls in love instantly, forgetting about everything else.
She does not know why she needs a stranger, she's just a hunter, she likes to get her way, and then quit her former lover. She does not want to stay with him for life, and then marry him. But unlike other women, she does not care about both the status and the age of the man. He is like a simple toy for her, you can play with her and quit.
So what are the chances of all types of mistresses to take a man out of the family? It depends only on the man, and how happy he is in the family or how tired he is of routine routine.
But it's not a fact that after the man leaves the family, you will succeed in creating a strong family. After all, the second marriage is not stronger than the first. According to psychologists, a man goes to the left, if his wife and mistress do not like him. A man meets another woman because he just needs to "win the next trophy" and make sure of his attractiveness. Therefore, it is the wife who should make her husband comfortable with her, and he does not start looking for a girl on the side.