Meetings of former lovers from each of the fair sex cause their special emotions. And in many cases, the essence of these emotions is practically impossible. In the period after a woman parted with a stronger sex, she can behave extremely unpredictably, by the way, she can not explain this behavior to herself.
One woman manages to maintain good and even friendly relations with an ex-lover without any difficulties, and there are types of women who, for all the years spent together, tend to conceal in their hearts a great resentment and dislike for their ex-lover. Just for this very reason, to find the final answer to the question of how to behave with a former lover and whether it is worth agreeing with him for meetings, it is very difficult. Let's all the same try together to understand this delicate question with the help of examples of the most common life situations.
The essence of meetings with an ex-lover / mistress
If it so happens that the man was the first to appear in the role of the initiator of the rupture of relations, the woman should be guided by the main rule - never to show that she is upset or regrets about what happened. And this should not even depend on how long the relationship lasted with this man. Well, if it so happens that after a certain time the former lover offers to meet, the woman, before agreeing, it is necessary to weigh the pros and cons and only then give their answer. Of course, it happens that the lady herself may be the initiator of the meetings of the former lovers. This, in the first place, can depend on the unstable emotional state of a woman who is guided by memories and the habit of seeing this man next to him. But it is worth noting that such meetings do not always become the beginning of a renewal of relations or give rise to a strong friendship. Sometimes innocent crossings of two former lovers can be of the nature of ordinary curiosity on the topic: "How do you live without me?".
If the former lovers are ex-spouses
In such a situation, it is very difficult to leave relations between each other normal, especially for the fairer sex. Here former lovers used to be united not only by sex, but also by many other aspects of life. Of course, it is not possible to be friends with an ex-husband, but one should not be enemies either.
But whatever would be said there is a rumor, and life very often after a certain time after the break confronts the former spouses. Most often, such meetings take place at a "business level" and are conditioned by a warm atmosphere (if, of course, the couple does not have what to share with each other) and leaves pleasant impressions.
If there is a current spouse
This situation is very common in modern society. The essence of it is that the woman, while married, continues to meet with the ex-man. Of course, such meetings can not always have a sexual basis, but rather an emotional attraction, but it is not worthwhile to talk about this to your spouse or to give everything out with your emotions. Therefore, if this happens, do not tell your wife long stories about how your ex-lover lives now and everything that concerns him. And even more so, you should not look for an excuse to introduce two men to each other, even if they are purely friendly and rare meetings.
Another day in the life of former lovers
According to most psychologists, if former lovers remained friends, and not enemies, in many cases such meetings end in sex (even if not at the first meeting, but it happens). But after a passionate night, often a woman begins to torment doubts and questions. Therefore, if the lady wants to continue these meetings with the ex-lover, it is very important not to succumb to temptation and not start to sort out the relationship or once again to pull the past. After all, such attempts to convince a man of his wrong and everything connected with it, will simply make this meeting the last, and friendship impossible. And lastly, if you doubt the need for these meetings, you better abandon them and continue to live your life!